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Anonymous  

About single dad48

I'm a single dad of 15 years now, my little girl and I have had no help from the mother at all . Last year my daughters dental work was 3,000 , payed cash. Never took a dime from the state. I have built many things for free to people in need . Did a year of volunteer work at york hospital. I keep praying it will just get better for me and I might get out of this slump I'm in , my teeth all hurt but really do not complain. I believe in hope and doing good for others.
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leticiagodinez  

EVERYONE BE STRONG (=

GOD IS GOOD EVEVERYONE OUT THERE KEEEP YOUR HEADS UP ....

dont ask god for a job if your not ready for responsibility...dont ask god for your own house if your not ready to be independent ...dont ask god for a good man/woman if your not ready to appreciate them...dont ask god for guidance if your not ready to follow,, god will only give u what u can handle,,if theres missing things in your life believe its for a reason ,god dnt feel your ready listen and pay attention to what hes showing u!

God won't close one door without opening another! The strong don't choose god,,,god chooses the strong! ! good day everyone keep ur heads up much love to alllll

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Struckdown  

Help

I dont know who is going to help me and i dont think any one will il keep hoping
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anjala  

About anjala

I am a srilankan refugee in belgium since 2005.  but still i did not get legal states.  I have two daughters, they are  16 and 18 years. My second daughter met an fire accident in month of march2009.  and my husbund and my daughters are living in india now.  but my possision is still as a illegal, I got the money from the friends  for the treatment of my daughter as a credit.  I have to repay that soon,because they start to give mental tarture.  And also I would like to bring my family here because my daughter need further medical tretment.  so i need financial support to release the problems.  

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Tidblessi  

About Tidblessi

Who is Tidblessi?  The Ann Landers of today.  Tidblessi gives you advice about your issues and problems according to God's Word.  If you need help in your life then write to Tidblessi.  Read my posts as I put articles in there.  I am a Pastoral Counselor/Coach and Teacher.  If you need help I can help you.  God Bless You Richly!!! God loves you.

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lilly1  

Help for Christmass

I am a singel mther of 2 beautiful girls.I am having alot of finacial problems,but my biggest fear right now is Christmass this year.My girlks have gone threw so much this year with me being Ill an my Ex-Husban making (EMPTY PROMMISES).Threw it all they are doing wonderful in school.My oldest is 8years old she is a great student and tries so hard.My youngest is 5years old she loves school so much she is doing wonderfull just like her sister.I am really hoping to find some help for Christmass,I have so many bills 2 pay that I am afraid I will not have the money for christmass.I am currentley not working because I was sickan couldn't work I am I seen my doctor recentley an soon I will beable to start working again.I am just as worried about that because there are not to many  jobs out there.We have been struggling for about 2 years.I just recentely recieved a court date to take my Ex-husband to court for child support.He is ordered to pay but you can not get blood out of a stone.Hopefully somthing will happen. I do not like asking for things but in this case I need to I really would love if some one can help me make my 2 daughters Christmass a fun and good one. Thank you and God bless  

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DMDemo  

Faith

Have faith.  Its something we all hear all the time, but there are times it gets so hard to just have simple amounts of faith.  Things get hard, you feel like you are walking through Hell on earth, and that everything in the world is trying to beat you down.  It hurts, I know.  I'm there right now.  My shoulders feel like they will snap if another burden is added to the weight that is upon them.  It sounds a bit sappy, but when my faith is this challenged I turn to my Bible.  I am a devoted Christian, and it brings me solace.  I found something today that I wanted to share with others that are in the same place I am.

 

Proverbs 24:16 - The Godly may trip seven times, but they get back up.

 

No matter how hard it is right now, no matter how much I want to curl and just cry - I have to keep getting up and moving forward.  The answer might just be there around the next bend.  The answer could be there for you, too, around that next bend.  I don't care if you are Christian or not, but the message to keep on keeping on is just as relevant to anyone regardless of their faith system.  We cannot give up, and we cannot give in.  We have to plug along, and we have to be strong in knowing that things WILL improve.  This too shall pass if we keep ourselves focused on the goal.

If you are feeling like you are in that dark place, don't give up!  Keep trying, keep looking, and keep believing.  It will pass, for all of us.  Things are hard now all around, and I do know that they are going to get harder for a lot more people before it gets better.  Our country, our world, has been through times like this before us.  They got through it, we can too.  My hopes, my prayers, and my good wishes are with everyone on this board.

 

DMDemo

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sparks and illuminate  

About sparks and illuminate

I wish to see a light at the end of the tunnel, even if it is just one lone firefly.

My name is Deborah. It has been a very lonely road for Kyle and Clay and myself, for the past five years. I suffered a severe mental breakdown in 2002-03. Post Traumatic Stress, and other hidden disorders. I was hospitalized, at the time of the event my boys just 12 and 13. I am the beautiful mom that made magic real, the tooth fairy, the valentine fairy, birthdays and all the Holidays. I never did drugs, smoked nor am I an alchoholic. I am a very good person, I have raised these two young men, now 17 and 19,who have prooven to be my real heros. Let me just say we have lived through the impossible the unheard of, the saddness the abondonment, and have rich memories and very deep convictions, related to positive mental health care.

I have been hospitalized on many occasions, during the past few years. Living through still a second trauma, with the most scariest ordeals that are at times inhumain, I have struggled alone.

I am always of sound mind, clear thinking and appear to be calm, happy spirited, kind hearted and extremely compassionate.

I work very hard each day to maintain composure. My children are my heartlights and they are the continueous feed that moves me to awareness in my most desparate moments.

Geez...This was not where I ever, ever, even could comphrend I would be 8 years ago.

I am productive, a workaholic, a mover and a shaker, never idol. Did everything with my kids. On my way to just being content. A nice career as a food service supervisor for a major grocerey store, a nice place to live, a nice car, my kids and I were, great.

Today, my children can't remember when I had my own house, a car, a stable life,safe and warm with my great stuff still in storage a thousand miles away, just to be all together again....living with the boys and my things that remind me of who I am, and what I am about, feels unattainable.

Now as the tears stream steady down my face... in the quiet of the room I am renting, I miss  the Kyle, the Clay... I love them and miss the huge hugs that we share, the laughter, the honesty of our words. The truth of us is only in our hearts and not known to many.

They are in an envirement that I never wanted to see them in, even though it is with thier father, ( he had never participated in their life until 2007) I worry I am scared and God you know how my heart aches for them.

I dont know what I need. That little happy firefly could get me to smile.

I am grateful for all that is here and now, for all the great people who have helped me through the healing process, and continue to.

Bless the child who is of his own. Bless the mothers who compose and smile, Bless the strength of individuals who just walk forward. Bless the hearts for those who are grateful.

I wish for the sick and wounded spirits, that can find with in themselves that joyful spirit....it may be lost, or quiet, to find that one thing that tickles them everyday.

with grace and perfect ways

your daughter, your sister, your friend.

 

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Sheleigh  

For "all" things are possible for those who believe in HIM

 

                                      Hey,this is Sheleigh and I just want

    to tell everyone,that no matter what your facing no matter what your after,it will come to pass- as long as you make your petition known to God... and other's around.Whatever you desire God said He will give it to you, "IF" you delight yourself in HIM. Nothing is to impossible or to Great for HIM.Whether your facing a sickness, a disease,an addiction, sexual impurties of every kind-or finacial problems etc...If we submit it all to Him,let him know what your dealing with,ask Him to change you,or the situation...and believe that He will see you through,you will get what it is you need.

           Even if your having a hard time living for Him;living right,never give up trying to do so.You may lose heart from time to time...but don't let your heart lose "you".Don't lose yourself,or the hope you have to see circumstances in your life turn around! No matter how far we may stray from Him from time to time,He is Always ready and willing to recieve us back as His very own children.And with that He is always willing to recieve our 'cares' too.

                                      Keep FAITH&HOPE...ALIVE!

                                             "Sheleigh"

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Anonymous  

Judd

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Lights Out  

Lights Out

I'm a 31 year old single mother I love my children and would sacrifice anything for them.I believe if someone helps you or if you help them never take them for granted and show some type of consideration.I love reading,spending time with my children,motorcycles and sports.
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Gentle Honesty  

Im Trying... but... its diffrent out here.

Hi, My name is Connie. I am 25 and am trying to make it. If this is really a way to ask for a bit of help then what have I got to lose.
I was an escort for a while and felt finnacially independent.... I have a son and just found out that i have another one on the way. I wanted to do the right thing, and not endanger my new little one and try and do something positive. So i quit escorting and am currently trying to find a job. Its not going too well. I don't want to go back to escorting. Im not giving up, but dammit the bills are pileing up!!! I have asked my neice to take my son for the school year so he can be in a stable place because right now i do not know whats going to happen!!! I want to go back to school! I want a chance!! If anyone can help, I would appreciate it. I am currently 2 months behind in rent. That is 1350. I have kept the utilities up, but my account is almost drained. You learn in these times that no matter how many people you helped out when you could, there not there when you need it.
I hope theres something out there. But if all i get is a prayer, then thats fine with me.

God bless,
Connie
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worldharmonyguy  

END ALL WAR - World Harmony Fund - Help join our mission

World Harmony Fund, Registered US Non-Profit, is seeking assistance in raising $25,000 to update website and fund marketing campaign. NO Directors are compensated, everyone is a volunteer.  All proceeds directly fund development

World Harmony Funds mission is to end all world conflict in the next 50 years.  We believe this can be accomplished by interchanging college-aged students (business plan for 10,000 in next five years) overseas to regions of the world with dissimilar religious and political beliefs.  During these interactions, BOTH cultures will gain enlightenment into each other’s belief structure and understand that we are ALL similar and can live in PEACE

Our ambassadors will volunteer 3 months of their lives to these regions, improving infrastructure and assisting in local needs.  This interaction is the basis of  understanding, leading to PEACE

Please assist
WE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD, One person at a time

donation page - link to below (paypal) 

http://www.digitalcharity.com/m.php?id=8385


 

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Littlebit  

Comment: Dear World, I won't give up...

Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "We can have a Better World"

Dear World, I won't give up hope. I believe in the goodness of humanity, and I am hoping for a miracle. To all who suffer: may your suffering be eased. To all who hope: may your hopes be fulfilled. To all who dream: may your dreams come true. All we have is each other. Make a positive difference in any way you can and BELIEVE! Littlebit
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Littlebit  

We can have a Better World

 

 

The greatest challenge we face is that of leaving this world in better shape than we found it.

I have given it all away with a smile, knowing that I helped people along the way.

Now I need help making my world a bit better, and my hope is that I can someday rise above my current circumstances to help many more.

My biggest dream is to start a camp for people with PTSD. My biggest obstacle is financing. Good jobs are hard to find where I live, though I continue to follow every lead. I wish success for all and hope for success for myself. I can decide to despair or to believe.

I choose to believe.

 

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